Due to sedentary lifestyle, we seem not to have enough time for our body. We only seem not notice the external part of our body, we do not really know what goes on in our internal organs. That's why constant check up in the hospital and exercise are necessary for a healthy and longer life term.
Sorry pains you're experiencing now but constant exercise will certainly help you. Although you should start with smaller ones at first so as not stress yourself. Remember it would be painful at first.
I am really amazed about how you found your husband, where am from females don't ask men out. Anyways I feel it's a nice thing if the tradition here is changed, because many of our ladies are living with feelings they're scared of letting the guy know. All because of what people would say and think of them. Thanks @reddust.