Before my wife went back to work, she would do exactly as yours does, rearranging this and changing that. I'm not sure if I really want her working, but at the same time, it has slowed down the amount of times I have to know what's different and then express an opinion about it.
183 days later, eh. Hmmm. There's a story there, in and of itself. Of course you called, but I guess that wouldn't have mattered that much since she was alone with the children. In a strange country. Did she speak German?
I'm just going to say that there are times where we both put up with each other, and leave it there. :)