I never saw the point in taking pride in something that is out of your control. In my opinion, pride movements are designed to artificially create communities and cultures out of an arbitrary identity marker that is inherent to people...and in doing so gather the numbers and political power needed to lobby for agendas.
I never got any kind of support as a child. Even in my teens, when I finally voiced the possibility I might have autism, what support I did receive was limited to the odd 'counselling' session and figuring out how to handle certain situations.
No one can be good at everything. I know I can't excel at delicate social affairs or high protocol events. And I'm beginning to accept that. All we can hope for is to be the best we can be, to utilise our talents and strengths to the fullest, and to not waste our energies chasing impossible dreams.