If the other parents wouldn't look at him when he stims, then look at me as if to say, "Are you aware that he's doing that?"
Yes, I'm aware.
I can only imagine some of the sour faces you must get. Yikes. I know I've made a nasty one or two at a parent of a screaming child (and/or the child) when I was younger. This is great perspective to keep in mind. Thank you for sharing this piece of your journey with the community @jazzyfish
Thank you, @randyclemens At first, it's usually a look of confusion. Especially, when we are at the grocery store because all the wheels on all the carts set him off. It really looks like he's giving everyone a very emphatic "Hello", so most people start with a smile. My son is adorable. It's hard not to smile at him! haha! That smile turns to concern as they raise their gaze to meet mine, as if they are wondering if I know there is something off. Not everyone is sour about it, but you can always tell when they don't understand or aren't willing to try to understand.