When we look back years later, we understand how much we struggle to change our wife and how much we wear out for this cause. But it's too late. Our diversity, which is our richness, has turned into the main problem that shook our happiness because of our misperceptions and miscommunication.
We need to get to know our wife well before we get married.
Once we know what she is, we must now accept that our wife is different and act accordingly. More precisely, this is the most logical way. Because it wasn't right to force her to change now. Why is it unfair?
Because some of our differences are behavioral styles that depend on our gender. This applies to almost all men and women. Attempting to change this is like changing the sex of our partner. Man means to make women masculine and woman.
In addition, some of our differences are our characters, our genetics, the behaviors and ways of thinking we have gained in the process of socialization. If these are not gained in a short time, their changes are never possible in a short time. Sometimes, even if it changes for someone's sake or for a particular reason, it will become obsolete again. The attempt to change them by force, pressure and various strategies in the short term can have the opposite effect.
We can change some of our wife's negative behaviors with the love, respect, love and good intentions we show her in time. As long as he continues to behave in the same way, we will continue to perpetuate our love and respect.
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