The truth, I acknowledge and excuse my ignorance, that I do not understand well the expression "tossing the banana in the air"; but, I think it refers to those moments where you want to throw a lot of things to the shit (excuse the rudeness); they are like moments of anger and a certain demotivation.
But, with complete certainty, "after each storm comes the calm" and being calm everything looks better and is solved.
Greetings @neoxian.