I'm with you on this. I have been less than impressed with my bitpay experience, much for the same reasons.
I haven't gotten another card yet, but like @lpfaust has been endorsing, Shift card seems to be pretty decent if you're alright with coinbase.
I am going to do some more research on TenX before I go ordering any other cards. Sounds like a good deal there.
Look forward to seeing you on Thurs!
Yeah I'm gonna compare all available options. I want to minimize the fees as much as possible! And yeah I'm excited for the meetup Thursday, I think it'll be fun (: