The most important mentality of investment is to learn to reckon with life, that is, to realize the reality.
Many people think that acknowledging life is a kind of negative thinking. It should be believed that people must overcome the theory of heaven, or that they can change their destiny. This is not wrong in itself.
However, efforts to change the fate of a certain dimension have little effect on the overall change.
The source of many people's pain or anxiety is also caused by disbelief, failure in life, and all the reasons attributed to their inability to work hard to solve all problems.
I remember the Japanese anime "Tokyo Ghouls" has a line: all the misfortunes in the world are caused by the lack of ability of the parties.
It sounds reasonable to say that in fact, this is like God's theory. All causes are attributed to God. This omnipotent theory seems to explain everything, but it does not conform to facts, lacks falsifiability, and does not conform to scientific principles.
The most important thing for investing is to be able to clearly realize that you are a few kilos or two, and you should not overestimate your abilities because of a sudden luck.
Many unnecessary pains are caused by the lack of understanding of one's own ability.
Successful people like Jinma always like to say: Do not limit yourself, do not underestimate yourself. This is not wrong in itself. When faced with the opportunity to jump, you really need to use this phrase to cheer yourself up. When you take the first step bravely, things behind you become easy.
However, everything has a degree and use scenario. If this matter is applied to investment, it will easily produce the opposite effect.
Many people tend to forget the purpose of success? And caught in an endless cycle of anxiety. Especially during the 30 years of reform and opening up, China’s rapid development and the desire of the Chinese people have been greatly mobilized.
In fact, success is not a goal. Success is the purpose of the country. It is not your goal. Many people tend to confuse their purpose with the purpose of the country and the organization. Once a person enters an organization, it is easy to be brainwashed by this organization. All are for the development of the organization, and completely forget where they originally wanted to go.
I remember that in the Second World War Japan was like this, Japan as a cult-like organization, the Japanese emperor became the supreme pope of the cult, and every Japanese soldier was like a madman, and all the goals of his struggle were to put himself in the interests of the Emperor. Fully integrated into the organization, in order to organize can be arbitrary, completely dehumanized, in order for the organization to grow and expand, engulf other countries, put life in a secondary position, you can sacrifice life at any time.
In fact, no matter if it is successful or profitable, the essential purpose is to be happy. If your success makes you feel less happy, this is problematic. Success is only a means. Happiness is your purpose when one can To make a positive contribution to society, not only to gain material and spiritual wealth, the most important thing is to be able to get a sincere sense of happiness.
Why do you sometimes have a desperate attitude?
Because when bad luck takes more than ordinary people's efforts and fails, success is a way to respect facts and accurately understand reality. Only by respecting reality, accepting reality, will it be easy to return to normal and then find problems. ,Solve the problem. The anxiety, disappointment, and depression of many people are often the result of serious distortions in the world and in the real world. They are reluctant to admit reality, and they only want to live in their own dreams. The way it is thought to develop, although everyone understands the world is not the same, but the real world is the real world, and how do you understand does not have much relationship.
Accepting life is to believe in real data.
Most people have great dreams since childhood. Most people work very hard in society. Many people feel that they work so hard and do not limit themselves. In the end, they should be able to become the top 20% of the crowd, but some have done it. According to statistics, the number of people in developed countries rising from the bottom 20% of society to the top 20% is only 0.8% of the total, while those who rise to the top 20% to 40% only account for 1.6% of the total. This is the difference between dreams and reality.
The same group of people who do not self-limit, but can find that there is probably only a few people without restrictions, and these few people feel that their experience is applicable to everyone, but the reality is: even the best experience is only a few people. Finally found that this experience has great use. Because success is a contrast, people who can be defined as successful are just a few.
Although the dream still has something to do, if it is possible to achieve it, the key is to realize the possibility is very low, but we still need to do personnel, listen to destiny, and do personnel is to increase the probability of success, although efforts are not necessarily successful, but do not work hard Will not be successful. Listening to the destiny is because people have emotions. If the reason is attributed to their own lack of effort, they will absolutely oppose and eventually give up. Only this effort to fully understand the reality can last long. At the same time, it is a prerequisite for maintaining a good attitude. A good attitude is also a prerequisite for happiness.
Receiving orders is to take only one part of your own. Don't worry too much about those unexpected assets. Others are lucky to get them. They do not think every day why they do not have such good luck.
Reckoning is a matter of knowing which ones are the ones that make money on their own ability, and which ones are the ones that make money from luck.
The good attitude of investing is to recognize the truth and the big bull market is coming. For the money earned beyond their own expectations, don’t consider the money as hard earned by themselves. When the big bear market loses these money, it will not feel like it. Too sad, because the money was originally a fortune, but it was accidentally lost. It was psychologically prepared.
Ultimately, we discovered that one person's way of looking at problems and doing things is to influence people's destiny and long-term investment income. This way of looking at problems and doing things is a person’s underlying logic that will affect a person’s life. In the short term, people are vulnerable to uncertainty due to luck, but what really affects a person’s life is a person’s underlying thinking. , namely attitude and three views. The so-called origin is only increasing the possibility of a person getting a good way of thinking.