@bigbraincciuto: Hello "again", although this is only my first time being acquainted with you. I must admit, I got a completely different impression going in to this than I did going out - in a good way.
TL;DL I saw the selfie(without context), and assumed self-indulgence (of the wrong kind), and precluded any possibility of non-trivial variety.
I look forward to "getting" to "know" you.
Best,
C