1- Make your wife feel the most beautiful and loved woman in your life. There are thousands of ways of doing this, and it’s
not up to me to list them here because what works for me might not work for a friend… This is why you should know her
well. This also means valuing her, which is something so important for women nowadays. Here’s a tip for women: If you
do not appreciate the smallest things that your husband does for you, how can you expect him to do greater things?
2- Be interested in what is going on in her life. In the rush of everyday life, it is quite common for the husband to come home
at the end of the day and just want to rest—it is not wrong, on the contrary, everyone who works deserves to rest. But
sometimes he forgets that his wife also had a busy day. An interesting thing about women, which many men still do not
understand, is that the majority of them needs to talk or vent in order to rest. She keeps everything inside, but there
comes a time when she needs to take it all out or she will explode. And this is when husbands must swing into action. Ask
her about her day and then just listen—that’s all! You don’t need to give your opinion, as a matter of fact, she probably
doesn’t want it, and I’ll tell you why: you are very practical and she is complicated, remember? So, just ask and listen—is it
too much to ask?
3- Allow her to be part of your life. She may be the busiest woman in the world yet still want to be part of her husband’s life.
She may not be by your side all the time, but she needs to know what you’re up to. It is easy to understand. We have a
motherly nature, a pleasure to care, but when we feel excluded and ignored, we feel helpless and useless. This is when
negative thoughts bombard our minds. We start wondering why we don’t know anything, why our husbands don’t open
up to us… Why? Why? Suddenly, jealousy is sparked within us! When the husband trusts his wife to the point of allowing
her to be part of his daily life, he is investing in her trust in him, and a confident woman is a very happy woman indeed—
believe me!
4- Make her feel secure, without making her the centre of your life. This is not a contradiction to the first tip. Women don’t
like men who are very jealous, clingy and always begging for attention; in fact, women tend to make little of such. Yes, we
like attention, but not to the point of making us feel like goddesses; this is how a husband, fiance or boyfriend loses the
respect of the woman he loves… Think of a caveman—but without pulling her hair! Your wife needs to feel secure by your
side—you have to be her man her protector, not her pet!
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