I believe in the game of hearts all should be considered fair as long as intentions are previously stated. There's nothing like 'dibs' here, you can't place dibs on a human being. She has her own feelings and ability to choose. So tell your friend you like her to, and you should both have at it, woo her separately and she decides the person she likes. If he's a true friend he would accept his loss and get over it. Not like she was in anything with him so you owe him nothing at this point.
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Yeah, I totally agree, however I don't think that he would see it this way! Further if I tell him that I also like this girl it will only create tension between us. Maybe she isn't even interested in both of us.. Either way, all I know is that I will have to make a move soon or just try and get over her. Thanks for the advice, this will help me think and hopefully make a decision soon! Much appreciated!!