When i was younger i used to feel saying no to people will hurt their feelings, because i didnt like people saying no to me. But as i grew up more i realised that, im the one that knows what is fine for me, people really care about themselves too, so why dont i? I also found out that its not as bad as i thought.
Nicely written post, i have learnt how to say no more comfortably now.
Thanks G
Happy Ramadan