Great and amazing write ups filled with a lot of inspirations.
Losing out can be painful and it mostly hurts when the reason why you lost out is because you fear you needed to protect some few individuals.
Loosing out, that I can refer also to business, and things that concerns our day to day life. Losing out, doesn't makes you a failure or a looser. Loosing out doesn't fix you in the class of losers.
But, failure to learn from your mistakes, and picking and dusting your self from the floor and take on that, heads up and heads on and approaching that which brought you down, qualified you as a loser.
We aren't born into the see world to be a failure nor a loser. We are the author of our own faith. Losing and vicyory depends on the attitude of the mind, @ejemai