One of the Best Quotes one Energy Vampires & Poisonous People
Do Not Involve Yourself with Poisonous or Vampiric People
Behavior is contagious. You will always take on the behavioral traits of the people you surround yourself with to some extent. You should only surround yourself with good men, and women who are under your control.
Some people exist to feed off of your energy. They will waste your time, and they will drain you. There are all sorts of ways that people do this, but if you understand it as a concept, you will be able to determine if someone in your circle of friends is such a person.
This is a complicated situation with immediate family members. I am of the opinion that short of the most extreme situations (which do exist), your parents and siblings are people you should always maintain a connection to, even if you have identified them as poisonous. However, you can and should limit your interactions with them if they are inclined to drain or otherwise harm you.
Learn to Judge the Character of Other Men
It is very important to be able to rate the value of other men, so that you do not surround yourself with men who are of low character. For the most part, you should judge them by the same standards you judge yourself, and the better your character becomes, the better you will be at judging it in other men.
Be Responsible for Your Own Life
The conditions of our birth and our upbringing are something none of us had any control over, and some of us were set back more than others. But ultimately, nothing that has happened to you that was out of your control can ever be blamed for who you are, and how you live your life. You have to take responsibility for every aspect of your life, because even if other people caused problems in your life, no one but you is ever going to fix them. Do not ever blame your personal problems on other people.
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