Yes, its strange how some people can't deal with an honest statement. I think, its often the fear of being rejected. But in my opinion the secrets and lies often only make things worse.
Throughout my life I have often been in the position outside the norm. Being an artist alone makes you a weirdo in many peoples eyes. But being that or simply special is only a matter of attitude in the end 😁
Like what you say about the mind games. Particularly the question of right and wrong probably dates back as far as mankind can consciously think about such things. Somehow the word normal always makes me feel uncomfortable. Each "group" defines their own normal, but what if you agree with some things in a particular group but also have a different opinion on other aspects?