It is normal to be in the perennial search for that partner who can meet the requirements of a full love, although some seek a love simply to function as company, there will always be the desire to have a person whom we can genuinely love and be reciprocated in the same way.
However, these ideal conditions of love are not so easy, that is why we see lonely people in search of that lost love, but what to do if we do not get that love we are looking for?
The first thing I think you should do is not to look, be patient and not despair is key, people who are looking for a genuine love usually succeed is because they know how to be alone and therefore are patient and do not seek, but rather live their lives enjoying the various forms of enjoyment offered by society as parties, meetings, also take advantage of the social circle that is formed to be attending college, work.
In short we could say that the best things come to our lives when we are not looking for them, but rather we are waiting for them, that yes to know if we are walking on the right path, we must know that it is convenient not to isolate ourselves, it is important that we are active, either with a job, doing a study or course, or simply socializing, since being isolated implies that we will not have almost no chance of that genuine love that we are looking for comes into our lives.
As a conclusion I can say that the key is not to look for it but to wait for it to arrive, that yes, as long as we are involved in some system of social development, if we are working, studying or doing something that involves us with other people, and we are not looking for that lost love then we would be developing enough patience to know that genuine love will come sooner or later.