Aw, thank you <3. I feel the same. Obivously parents look at society and try to to make their children compliant. For the sake of fitting in. But I am just not into the 'act'. For me it's not about sexuality gender-wise. I just don't believe in reproduction and the 'act of reproduction' in this day and era. Cuddling is awesome and there is so much non-productive sex.
Also, I am just too aware of the big problems in this world: Increase in population straining the eco system, causing famine and other misery, while our linear economy is a BEAST.
Somehow I feel this is why there is so much confusion about sex, we're still connected to the earth, even those that stopped caring. I wish you to lots of love, luck and bliss <3