In this blog, I'm gonna give you three specific texts that you can send to a guy that is bold and confident and will spike attraction at the same time as leading to a date.
Here's what this message does.
You've to suck into his day, and jolted him out of whatever he's doing right now to bring him into the moment with you.
It wasn't small talk...
"Hey. How are you doing?"
"What you up to?"
"How's your day going?"
You just jumped straight into something meaningful. And you've paid a unique complement to the dynamic you have with him. It's not about your bad connection, it's about your head connection. It's about a deeper connection with him. You miss your conversation.
The best part is, even though you've done all of that with this message, you still haven't been the one to ask him on a date. It's just gonna make him wanna ask you on a date.
This message which is adorably demanding in a playful way. It's vulnerable on one hand... You know you are saying,
"I wanna do this with you."
It's also slightly unreasonable because he didn't even necessarily know that you wanted to see that film. In fact, I would say this message works better if he didn't even know you wanted to do that thing.
And you're being upfront about what you want. You're putting the ball in his court saying.
"Hey!"
"Mister!"
Ïnvite me in this date, please."
You send this message, and he's thinking,
"That's a super confident, bold message."
"She didn't know whether I was busy tonight or not"
"which means she took a risk."
"A fifty-fifty risk that I would even be available tonight."
"That's kinda hot."
What kind of person sends that message? A high-value person. Someone who believes in their own worth. Someone who thinks that they're worth dropping everything for to come and do something last minute. The certainty you came in with is the thing that makes him that much more likely to say,
"Screw it."
"I'm in."
And by the way, these three messages show really fun, cool side of you. SO save them for the guy who's actually trying to you. Don't use them on the guy who's completely gone cold and isn't investing.
Can I ask if these actually work?
I'm researching this whole attraction thing, and you may be on to something.
Just anecdotal evidence would be sufficient
Thanks for posting
It was my experience honestly. And it was fun to do this in a right person that you know well. Especially to your partner in life.
So it was a "joke" to someone you already knew?
Rather than a 'random' who you wanted to know?
It's not like that my friend. It depends on the situation. It depends on how you will handle it. Perfect timing must be.
OK. I thought it was a way to "meet" someone & to get him to ask a female out.
My confusion!
LOL... If you are close to her or to him it is possible I think...
That was a funny thing to do... LOL
I want to do that sometimes. I will try. Ahahaha...
Thanks, @kennyroy!
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