Wow, you have explained this personal story so throughly your thoughts and living with this syndrome, that its hard to believe you have any classifications that would deem you as an Asperger patient...are you sure your not a doctor sharing their thoughts and knowledge about this subject?;))
Excellent post indeed.
With aspergers there isn't an impairment in the intellect. People with aspergers can even have an above average level of intelligence. The biggest difficulty is in adapting socially. I can see some ways that it affects me online, but it's much more difficult for me to relate to people face to face.
In fact, the "regular" development of cognative abilities is what makes it so hard to identify aspergers disorder. It's hard to know how many people go un-diagnosed, but suffer all the same.
Yes I am sorry that I didn't express that I was sharing about the social aspects. As an encouragement that you express yourself well on your post...let me put it this way, I sense you could look deeply in the eyes that will reflect back to you your own heart.