Each of us quarrels, then reconciles - in this process in this situation involved two people.
Now imagine that your quarrel is known to friends, relatives, cats, dogs, etc., and at the time of the quarrel you could present them a situation in such colors !!! How now to be reconciled - you will think? Most of them without knowing it, influenced you and your decision. Now it will not be easy to reconcile. You will reconcile sooner or later, but with the participation of third parties this will be much more difficult. And sometimes your fate can be decided not by you, but by the participants in your conflict, who were not fully aware of all the nuances!
And yet, if the parents found out about the quarrel, then after it, even if you have reconciled, will start from the other side to look at your soul mate. Sometimes some parents begin to wind their children ("this is not your man," etc.), and some even try to artificially bring the matter to a divorce or disorder of relations.
Therefore, if you want to quickly reconcile with your husband (wife), then do not tell your neighbors about quarrels.
Also, the first after the quarrel can be approached by both man and woman.
A very good act will be for a woman to approach and ask for forgiveness, even if she believes that she is right. But this does not mean that it is necessary to take care of a man and beg for forgiveness. It means - say the words: "I'm sorry, I was not right". The phrase should be short, such as if you send SMS. Then, if the man continues to insure that he is right, you will agree with this, thereby you quench the quarrel and will not bring her to its peak!
Well, as the relationship develops, you need to gradually this "pleasant" duty to ask forgiveness to shift to a man.