The whole world has gone haywire. If you turn on the news, there is nothing but negativity. Very few times, good things are broadcasted, simply because good things don't get enough press.
We watch the news and we feel negative. We are influenced by negativity and very soon we are in a heated discussion with your family members about all the negative things we constantly have to hear and see. We start to worry unnecessarily about things that has nothing to do with us, because in fact, we can literally not change any of this.
Because negativity is all we hear and see, we tend to overlook the good things happening all around us. We just don't notice the little things anymore, because most good things are just smothered by bad things.
Many people walk around with a dark cloud hanging above their heads. Negative people that can't see the good in anything. Believe me, these negative people do exist and they complain about everything. These people struggle to see the positivity in anything.
If any obstacles gets in their way, they will always see the negative instead of the positive. They are all around us, and often very difficult to avoid. Negative people have a lack of confidence, and sometimes even have personality disorders.
If you are influenced easily by negativity, then perhaps it is time to get rid of negative energy and negative people all around you. This is where the law of conversation of energy comes in. Believe it or not, but negative energy rubs off on people! This is not reality, this is science.
The law of energy states, that energy cannot be destroyed or created, but it can be transferred from one object to another. Negative people transfer their energy to positive people. Negative energy can be very overpowering. Sometimes it can influence your thoughts and behavior without you even realizing it.
Have you ever had that gloom and doom feeling and you don't exactly know why you are feeling this way? Chances are that you have been in contact with someone that had a negative influence on you.
Negativity rubs off!
Even though we try and avoid these type of people, it is not always possible. If you have to work in the same office as a negative person, chances are that you are constantly being influenced the wrong way. Negative people worry constantly and they survive on unbalanced thoughts. We all worry sometimes, but we know that it is a completely useless waste of energy because whatever is going to happen, is going to happen whether we like it or not, but if we stress and worry about something silly all the time, then it will for sure influence you in a negative way.
“Whatever is going to happen will happen, whether we worry or not.” – Anna Monnar
Neutralize negativity......
If you are the person negatively influencing others, it is very important to find out where the negative energy is coming from. Avoid people at work that always go against the flow of things. We need to be flexible in our jobs, and if that means doing things differently at times, then so be it, but you need to avoid these type of people, especially if you are easily influenced.
Energy is energy and if negative energy can rub off, so can positive energy. Make a conscious decision to be positive and to look for the positive in everything. Chances are you will be a much happier person.
Conclusion:
Try and be a more positive person. Try and avoid negativity in your life. Ultimately you are the only person that can really help yourself.
“People tend to be generous when sharing their nonsense, fear, and ignorance. And while they seem quite eager to feed you their negativity, please remember that sometimes the diet we need to be on is a spiritual and emotional one. Be cautious with what you feed your mind and soul. Fuel yourself with positivity and let that fuel propel you into positive action.”
I feel like it rains every day. I don’t like it! I want nothing but sunshine!
Get out of the rain...lol
I try too but it gets so slippery, :(
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People who are negative are never happy, criticize randomly find fault in everything, it does rub off!
A short walk in the outdoors relaxes me from negativity, good debates are far more rewarding than listening to garbage being spewed on media.
Your content is thought provoking thanks @giantbear
Yes, there does seem to be an alarming degree of negative events and feelings in the world... and the thing that strikes me most is how angry it seems like many people are. And that just feels like it adds to the negative vibes.
But yes, you are right, there is "good" in every day, if you remember to look for it, and focus your attention on it. A practice of gratitude for what is good is also very helpful!
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