I AM AFRAID OF THE FIRST APPOINTMENT

in #busy6 years ago
They're not going to let me lie, it's always exciting when we're finally going to have a date with that special someone! But what's not so cool is when the nerves mega-invade us thinking about that (long-awaited) moment. We spend an eternity planning what we are going to say or how we are going to dress. Any detail, however small it may be, can make us sweat our hands and make cobwebs on our heads😯 ... I will tell you something, NOTHING HAPPENS !! Take a deep breath and think about just being the way you are, that's the best way to get to an appointment and give the other person the opportunity to get to know you a little more. 😉

I'll tell you some little things that worked for me when I had an appointment.

The first thing you should do is:

1.-Mentalize 🌟, to think that you are going to have fun and not to act like a robot that takes care of every word and movement that it does.

2.-Put on an outfit with which you feel super safe and comfortable, obviously giving the touch that makes you look special that day, the case here is that you can be yourself completely. 💃💕

3.-Forget the cell phone ✋📱, tell him about the things you like and listen to what that person has to tell you.

4.-If you feel that your nerves beat you, it's a good idea to play "questions and answers", you're probably going to think "Yuyaaay Yuya, what a bit of advice", but it really works, and one point in your favor is that, they will know each other even more! 🙊👌💕

And finally this advice is for handsome people who flat out "no more can not" hahaha, and that is if the nerves are eating you inside, go to the bathroom and BREATHE! In any case, what is the worst that could happen? The best thing is to relax and just enjoy the moment. 😊

And good looking, I really hope that these councils will help you a little bit, you know I love to talk with you! And if you will soon have or just had a date, do not forget to tell me all the details! And if you have not had an appointment yet, remember that nothing happens, you have to enjoy life and take advantage of the fact that we can use our time to do things that make us happy.

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