Compensation can, however, be at the other extreme - laziness. On the other hand, the older ones, who at some point enjoyed the full attention of their parents, and after the birth of younger siblings, were usually in the position of the stronger (both physically and mentally) are more inclined to accept the idea of despotism, excessive power and so on, as they themselves have been in a similar role - more or less. Also, the author draws attention to gender about the situation in the family - only a boy among many sisters or vice versa, and if there are two children - a bigger boy or vice versa. Each of these cases, as well as many other varieties, of a family situation