Happy day have all my friends in the community today I want to share this article of self-improvement and motivation.
Today I choose to attend a little more, take care of that inner garden that grows in me to be happy, so as not to fall into other people's egoisms, so that my days have no more dark moments. And life, bring me suns of joy.
We all want to be happy, but in reality. We do not always start on the right path: attending, listening, positioning ourselves as protagonists in the theater of our lives and not behind a curtain where life, just passes and forgets to embrace us.
Nobody should call you selfish by saying "no" when you need it, by seeking oxygen and freedom in moments of pressure, by cutting ties when those people hurt you. No one has power over you except yourself, because we all come alone to this world and we go the same way ... So why not start to be happy and offer happiness?
Choosing to be happy is the first leap that will undoubtedly bring you closer to your goal: because whoever chooses decides, because whoever takes the first step through their thoughts will end up materializing it in their reality, in their daily life.
Now, to be happy, apart from a wise choice, it sometimes means that we have to prioritize, and realize that maybe, we should put ourselves in front of some things and some situations. It sounds without a doubt something radical, but in reality, it is about maintaining a "balance" between others and us. Therefore, it is worth taking into account some of these dimensions.
Surround yourself with people who give you light, not suffering
As we have pointed out before, the key is balance. One must be well above everything with oneself, you must perceive that everything you do or stop doing fits your expectations, your identity, your essence.
There are people who make us lose that inner balance: they take us away from our values, they violate our integrity, they take away our energies, they manipulate us with their ironies, their demands or subject us to a love inhabited only by thorns.
Surround your life with authentic people with whom you allow yourself to be yourself at every moment. Now, we know that throughout our existence we must relate to figures that do not always fit with what we are, with what we need.
Sometimes, to be happy you have to make an inner journey to heal many wounds and deficiencies of yesterday. Once covered, satisfied and released fears it is time to open your eyes and heart and believe in it, believe that we really deserve to be happy.
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