I don't think it is entitled to want to spend your time doing what you want. It just requires a pragmatic view.
Good = "I want to do these things, so I will do the work/patience to try to make it possible... or I'll accept that I don't want the things enough to really pursue them"
Bad = "I want these things and it's so unfair that I don't have them"
like we're all so lucky just to have running water, a warm house, some food in the fridge on a regular basis... I find it really really hard to sympathize with people who complain about how it's hard to make a living from art, or to get more vacations, or that kind of stuff. That stuff is all bonus on the huge quality of life we already get.
On that note, I'm going to spark up a very late night 4/20 bowl... if I haven't slept yet at 4:20am, it still counts as 4/20, right?