RE: Help me understand why you have to smoke weed everytime we go to a function or event.

[richardcrill]

@Whatsup hit the nail on the head. Sounds like fear and jealousy, like a needy girlfriend. Sounds like you could really benefit from smoking weed, lol. But for some reason, the people that need it the most won't use it. I remember you tried it a while back so kudos for that. Not really sure what else to tell you, but... chillout, be confident. Imagine that she does go and smoke weed with some people and does a bunch of cool stuff with them. It's her life, if she's happy, you should be happy for her.

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[iamnotageek]

You are absolutely correct. I think it does stem from a place of fear and jealousy as I mentioned in the post. The fear of being replaced with weed for happiness, that I'm not enough.
But that's where confidence comes in.

Thank you for the great comment my friend. & more importantly, your honesty.

[richardcrill]

I knew you could take it, you already know the truth. You can never depend on anyone else for your happiness. I am reminded of this quote:

"If you are always expecting to be considered, understood, helped or loved, you will never be happy, for everyone has their own worries and problems. Someone may be with you one minute but busy elsewhere the next, and then you have to manage on your own. This is why I tell you not to count too much on other people, because you cannot be certain of their attention, friendship and love. One moment you will feel understood and supported, but what will happen the next? You should never expect anything from others, especially not their love. It may come, of course; it may even keep on coming. If it comes, it will be welcome, and you will thank heaven, but you shouldn’t expect it. Do you want to be happy? Do not ask to be loved; just love, day and night, and you will be happy all the time. One day a wonderful love affair may come out of the blue… Yes, why not? It can happen, but don’t expect it". – Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov

[iamnotageek]

Absolutely brilliant quote !