"I just feel too relaxed and when someone brings up about the urgency of it then reality sets in."
Believe it or not I understand exactly how you feel. Several years ago I was also like you (and it is still a bit in me). When I know something is important, I sometimes don't see how important it is. Until it happens...
You can do it man. Focus on something that you really want and like, and it will become more important to you (this has helped me a lot).
Thank you so much for this. It delights me to know you can totally relate to this. I will take this advice and focus on the things i like and want and act immediately towards it. More determined now than ever. Thank you so much. I really appreciate this.