Big thx for this amazing comment and for your time @arnel
I think it would be an understatement to just say caring for our children as just an investment for our future
Perhaps I'm seeing children being "an investment" because I've spent to many years living around Chinese people (either chinese-malaysians or chinese-singaporians) and that's how they seem to "work". They raise kids so in the future kids would take care of them (parents usually move to live with their own kids, even if they are married and have families). Level of independence in those communities is very ... low.
I admire your patience and dedication in doing all of these.
Thank you for this kind and encouraging words my friend :)
Yours
Piotr