Never let the negativity get to you. There are gonna be a lot of people you have to plow through, but as long you believe in yourself, that's all that matters. ~ Becky G
Everyday we deal with negativity... it's all around us, thrown in our faces 24 hours a day from acquaintances, friends, TV, social media, and we even see it on Steemit sometimes.
Just the other day, I seen tons of Drama and Negativity on steemit, people complaining about how people should or shouldn't act. It received tons of views and opinions of others but guess what I did, I keep on scrolling.
You see, I made a decision a long time ago that I don't let any type of negativity or news affect me, I just don't allow it in my life so I avoid it at all costs.Β
I just don't participate in any drama or negativity, it's just a huge of waste of time.Β
People are attracted to drama and negativity, Β Heck it makes us feel better about our own lives when you see others being negative about their lives or situations.Β
The biggest shift in my life happened 20 years ago when I started to surrounded myself with only Positive Minded People, instead of negative a**holes who always stir up drama and complain about everything.
Guess what happened, I'm a much happier person and learned that negativity and drama is just a distraction, it prevents people from reaching their owns goals in life.Β
With that being said... always remember to stay positive regardless what you see or hear everyday, you will live a much happier life.Β
"A negative mind will never give you a positive life"Β
i'm not pessimist but realist.
btw, always thinking big and don't just hope, but work for it!
Best phrase of the day "i'm not a pessimist but a realist" :)
Hey @stackin - just mentioned you charles in my last post about how great a motivator you are; especially articles like this promoting positivity - exactly the focus of my article!:
https://steemit.com/philosophy/@mikeparker/don-t-sweat-the-small-stuff
You the man @mikeparker, also welcome to steemit :)
Thanks! I didn't expect a whale reply ;) steem on Mr. Motivation.
I decided to help my fellow minnows with some tips in my latest article - Using my experience to get to a $100 a post reward :)
We get that a lot, being a blogger and vlogger, specially vlogging. It's hard not to care about what other people thinks, but I try to not give a F about it. People will tend to be negative about it. They have this mindset that you don't make money blogging or vlogging. That may not be true to some people that have made it. It's very much true to the other 90% in the world. I'm one of the 90%. So I look at it as my side income. I still have a job but blog and vlog about stuff. Always trying to make it someday.
I always said this to my peeps, "Do You", forget the naysayers and live a great life ππ―
Ohmygosh, @stackin... great minds, thinking alike! :-)
https://steemit.com/philosophy/@erikaharris/allow-your-good-thing
I love your positivity!!
YES @erikaharris, I'm going to go watch your Positive Video right now :)
Life is way to short to let negative people try to suck the life out of it. Negative people suck. We all have are own battles we are going through but having a positive outlook on things can make things a lot easier to deal with and overcome. Choose happiness.
Totally agree, too many people are attracted to Negativity. Just be happy people, it's the best way to live :)
Negativity is overwhelming here. Whatever we do, people will always have something to say at the end of the day. So what are we going to do? Just do whatever we want to do lol.
It's everywhere, I just don't participate and keep on movin πππΌ
He is a beast but didn't he say bitcoin was trash, but he changed his tune recently haha
I don't know that he said it was trash. I remember him saying that he is looking for the "next Bitcoin." Back in 2013 he was acting like BTC was sort of played out and that the next and better iterations of the tech would be better....etc.
I agree with about 95% of what Cuban says.
He is a good guy to follow, I remember he bought a search engine company in the early 2000 and got busted for insider trading but they couldn't prove it. The company went bankrupt but thats what entrepreneurs do, fail and become better :)
Negative people always bring out negativity. Why don't people mind their damn business? LOL
I have no idea, you may need to ask them π
Preach! @stackin
love your positive vibes!!
You the best ππ―
it is quite challenging to task stackin !
Stay with Peace ! @kam.ila
You got that right, let's stop being average :)
It's like the saying goes, "You can't keep birds from flying around your head, but you can prevent them from building a nest in your hair"
... such is negativity... it's everywhere, but you just gotta resist it!
YES!! :)
π―% agree bro. Constant positive mindstate!
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Bringin that Positive Action LOL
Very true. I believe that when people are naysayers, they're really only projecting their insecurities onto others. So, when someone else says, "You can't do that (fill-in-blank)!" what they're really saying is, "I could never do that (fill-in-blank)."
Whenever I hear a naysayer start like that, it thrills me, because it means I am indeed on the right path. On my path. May it lead to wonder and knowledge. As I hope for you all.
That is a great perspective and a good way to look at it. "On The Right Path" :)
I totally agree! No party poopers are allowed in my vicinity.
I have weed hundreds of them out everyday lol
Thank you for this. I've had had a very stressful week of work and some financial problems on top of that. Now that I think about it I realized that my attitude was really what keeps me down. I KEEP ME DOWN. Again, thank you :)
You got this, just keep moving forward... you got this :)
As long as some Humanity exists weΒ΄ll always hear people complain for sure. ItΒ΄s just normal for some to do it on a daily basis unfortunately...
But you are totally right, optimism is the best at all times. To think positive and enjoy your life, thatΒ΄s as well my way of thinking since a long time. IΒ΄m glad you were able to achieve this significant change in your life 20 years ago :)
I had to learn at an early age haha ... It's odd when you seen your old friends from 20 years ago, and they are the same people now. smh lol
Some people change, some don't & we continue going our own way while keeping those in our lives we think are worth it.
I can relate to this. I know a lot of people, including family members who find a negative in anything and try to create drama. As @ptmikesteem says, life is way too short to allow such negativity get in the way of our lives.
I guess we are all in control of our attitudes and actions and by choosing your attitude every morning when you wake up that is the attitude you will have throughout the day. Great post @stackin.
YES, I totally agree on this. People need to take full responsibility on everything they do, once they do that... major change will happen :)
Yes! Too right. A lot of it is to do with mindset and from which angle we see and evaluate things from.
Horrible those drama queens. Mostly it happens if they have their poor ego not in sight ;-) or too much .hihi.
Full 100% and resteemed :-)
The best supporters on steemit :)
If you are positive and you hang out with a negative all day long then you end up neutral if you are lucky. If you are positive and you hang out with 2 or more negative people all day long then you end up negative. Math is math.
Yes, you surround yourself with people that you want to become :)
I totally agree with you OP. Negativity will only drain you emotionally. What you view, what you think, what you read, the things you listen to, the people you roll with, all have a way of channeling either positivity or otherwise towards you. If you want to attract positivity, you have to make your daily life and the things around you positive. One way I have used in ridding negative people out of my life. They are only ready to take you down with them and I damn surely can't have that for me! Thanks for that piece OP!
You hit the nail on the head. Surround yourself with people that you want to become :)
Weirdly enough I made a post about this yesterday about love and hate.
Hate is something which brews and clouds your mind with rage and rampage. You let it sit and brew leading you to do rash, impulsive actions you will regret.
Always strive towards positivity and happiness as that is what will act as the energy to keep striving for better. Hatred and anger only slows down that process.
Great Post @stackin. Keep spreading positivity.
let's keep on stackin that positivity :)
I love your content! Real quality! Thank you!
Thanks @folklohr, took me 20 minutes to write it up :)
agreed you are right
I'm just dodging all the negativity today haha
On youtube, matthias said he learned to embrace change. Thanks for this wonderful article.
you always furnish us with great posts, I agree. thanks for sharing
I'll try to become better at it :)
You are already good in what you do, hence why you always have my upvote-feel free to see my posts too
Absolutely correct, One of my favorite quotes by Winston Churchill:
βYou will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.β
Be positive always, dont get the negative vibes affect you.
All I can say is that there are lots of barking dogs in the world lol
Amen brother. One person told me a long time ago; ignore the lower energies. I took that advice. Ran with it. I have not looked back, doing things with love, for fun, and releasing all folks who do that fear-based, negative thing.
That is a great way to look at it, "lower energy". Let' all move forward and become great :)
I feel like more people need to see this ; also - I have been trying to start a project by getting people to use the tag " changetheworld "
Perhaps you could help bring content to that tag ; upvoted + re-steemed .
I'll take a look, thanks for sharing :)
This reminds me a movie. He receives so much bad news in one day that at one point he runs away from a person while they were still talking. He was literally running away from negativity. He is running you are scrolling and I'm giggling at the connection.
My scrolling action is my runaway method haha
I found that people love other people who are down and out. It makes them feel like their situation isnt as bad or that they arent alone. However, this doesn't pardon them from the fact that they are contributing to spreading the negativity.
Why does a positive post get less attention than a bad one? I've always noticed this.
Within all that, its also important not to ignore someone whos calling for help. :)
You are right on point. I avoid it at all cost on a daily bases... at the end of the day, it's kinda a waste of time and life. Thanks for the support @whatawombat :)
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Very motivating , i love the positive vibes here ,, the more positive your are, the healthier you are
You couldn't be more right :)
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Negativity takes more energy, why waste your energy on that?
Great post and a happy positive evening to you!
I saved a lot of energy this month :)
Instead of "No Flex Zone" it is "No Negativity Zone" :D
So funny, I'm still trying to catch up with comments 3 days old lol
Good post! Have you ever considered to be a motivational speaker or coach? haha
Oh No haha... I stay with being a marketer instead, much easier haha
So true, nothing positive ever happens from negativity!
Yes, that's what i'm talking about :)
Sometimes ignorance is a bliss ;)
That's true, that why many people take the blue pill lol
haha! most excellent - just stumbled across your feed and am pumped/thankful for your community of "highly extraordinary, visionary and positive individuals...thanks for being awesome and helping people be awesome - I will gladly partake in your movement of freethinking individuals that live phenomenal lives...
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Thanks @breakthrough! Welcome to steemit, there are so many great people here :)
Exactly, and people are only treating you bad when you allow them. I might tease you sometimes but you are an awesome guy Fuchster
I love sarcasm, especially on social media. Too many people take it to seriously. All I know is that you are awesome :)
Aww thanks :)
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Always choose positivity my friend since life is too short and everyone should learn to live his or her day positively. This is the best remedy of life...
Helpful posting. Thanks for sharing.
Definitely worth an upvote and a resteem :]
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Heck yeah man! No negativity allowed in my life! Hey sometimes things go bad but there is always a bright side to it, you just need to find it. And when you do you stay happy.
I agree 100%
@stackin nice article. I'm glad to see people on here with similar outlooks on life.
I'm new to steemit and if you get a chance head over to my page and check out my introduce myself post it would be much appreciated!
We need more people like you and I'm glad you threw this information out there for everyone to read!
Thanks!
Congratulations @stackin!
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