Is marriage all?

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Many of our women now no where in particular, have to belittled their self-esteem towards the personality and achievements of the men in their lives. This streak is a pity.

There usually is an unnecessary emphasis on the marital status of such women in the social sphere.

They, for instance, feel that respect should be accorded them all the more once they add the initial, Mrs, to their name.

And this could be possible, given how many of us erroneously give preferential treatment to married women, not on the basis of qualification, but simply on the account of their marital status being "married."

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This explains why an empty-headed married woman is regarded more responsible than a brainy single lady in this part of the world.

This could also be responsible for the tendency of such women to cry and wail that a man they were dating or married to left them after so many years of "building with him."

Building what exactly? Are you a contractor? Is the man the only human that should build himself or build something? You should build yourself, too, if at all you must help another man build himself. This is basic life principle.

I am saying this without being ignorant of the fact that many times when a woman says she helped to build a man, all she did was stay in the man's life the period he was struggling, without attempting to make something out of her own life.

Build yourself too. Don't stay idle, featuring in the script of a man's life, saying you're helping or building him. You are not Julius Berger.