Are You the One?

in #christian-trail7 years ago (edited)

(This is not me. I'm just the one who captured it.)



Have you found the one? Not yet? or are you doubting whether you're "one" is really the "one" God chose for you? Sometimes, the answer is right there without us realizing.

(I'll be sharing to you the things I've learned during our previous gatherings. I hope you'll be blessed by it. :) )


3 Laws of Attraction

1. You don't attract what you deserve. You attract who you think you deserve. When you believe you're unworthy of love, you accept the "love" from someone who doesn't love you the way you should be.

2. You don't attract who you want. You attract who you are. Like attracts like, though it's not always obvious in some cases. You're partner might be loud and outgoing while you're quiet and reserved but deep down, you're both insecure and harbor bad perceptions of your own selves. You only differ in the manifestations of these insecurities.

3. You don't attract how you want to be treated. You attract how you treat yourself. The third comes as the biggest surprise to most of us. We don't realize that how we treat ourselves on a daily basis becomes our subconscious idea of what love is. We reject what we consider foreign so if we're accustomed to being hard on ourselves,we push away good treatment despite recognizing the latter as the more logical choice. Before you commit to someone, you have to commit to being your own best ally through 6 ways.

  • Forgive your faults. How hard you are on yourself is how hard you are on others.
  • Fix your fences. Protect yourself from negative and/or abusive people. Place distance.
  • Feel your feelings. You're a human. Recognize your emotions but don't allow them to steer your life's direction.
  • Focus your fantasies. Work on your dreams. They'll be your destiny. Your passions are part of your identity.
  • Follow your fun. Life was meant to be enjoyed. Don't be too serious. Take things lightly.
  • Find your flow. Find that state when being focused on what you love no longer feels work but play.

"Work on yourself, first." -Bro. Bo Sanchez. 

Why? Because of the laws of attraction. :)

Be blessed some more! :)


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You attract who you are.

That is so very true. It can be a wake up call or an encouragement to evaluate your friends by this principle. :)

Bro. Bo Sanchez is a great man of God. :)

That law of attraction doesn't apply to me hahahaha.. joke