A lot of failures in life can be avoided. The problem is people who fail consistently in their lives are ignorant of the underlying causes.
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And because of the pain and anger that is associated with failing, they remain adamant, in spite of the advice given them. So they continue with their own ways and fail again. And they get more angry, most of the time, with everyone else other than themselves. Here, are three reasons why people fail almost always:
They are impatient
I listened to an audio tape years ago on success by Pastor Mensah Otabil and he made a statement that has stayed with me till this day. He said
Success is not something you do once; but something you do repeatedly.
It is near impossible to see someone succeed overnight. In the pursuit of success, patience is key. The Bible says
If you stay calm, you are wise,... (Proverbs 14:29 GNT)
It takes patience to keep doing the same thing, being consistent. And one of the strength of every successful person is consistency. So, those who are not patient will keep failing.
They don't mind their own business
Most people fail a lot of times because they don't have stickability. They have very little staying power. They spend a lot of time talking about about what others are doing instead of focusing on their own business. Such people don't achieve much in life. It takes focus and discipline to be successful in any field. If things will work out successfully, time, effort and energy must be invested.
They know it all
I have discovered through experience that people who are ignorant are very outspoken so they find it difficult to listen and seek advice. Knowledgeable people are people of few words. In the execution of any given task, common sense will produce common results. If you desire outstanding results, you need advice. People who fail, in most cases, have insufficient information and guidance about what they are working on and failure is inevitable.
Everyone can succeed but only with the right attitude.
God bless!
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