I have no real idea about music much less classical music......... but I have had this image or a perception in my mind that classical music is meant for live performances which perhaps decreases it's reach.
Then there is this another perception of mine. One that indicates a certain hint of elitism in this art. I haven't really ever shared these perceptions with anybody but I found that they are both mentioned in your post. In a different wording though.
Thank you! I am glad to know that my ideas are similar to yours. It is never too late to learn about something new!
10 Simple rules for learning to enjoy classical music ; -)