First, the difference between the purpose of marriage
1.The purpose of the Chinese marriage. The traditional Chinese marriage is aimed at the family rather than love. The purpose of traditional Chinese marriage is through the marriage of the advantages of the two families to expand the family alliance; and for the male family inherited the family's descent, the family line. In today's Chinese society, this traditional marriage has changed. Young men and women often choose "love first" marriage. But in China, a very traditional society, to make love into the main purpose of marriage, is still not a simple matter.
1.中國婚姻的目的。傳統的中國婚姻是針對家庭而不是愛。傳統中國婚姻的目的是通過結婚兩個家庭的優勢，擴大親戚家庭;而對於男性的家庭繼承了家庭的血統。在今天的中國社會，這種傳統婚姻已經改變了。年輕的男女常常選擇“愛”的婚姻。但在中國，一個非常傳統的社會，讓愛成為婚姻的主要目的，還不是一件簡單的事情。
2.The purpose of marriage for Europeans and Americans. One is falling in love; the second, looking for a long partner, so that their physical and psychological needs to be met. Europeans and Americans have always focused on the cultivation of individual independence, so Europeans and Americans have a strong sense of independence.
歐洲和美國人的婚姻目的。一個是墮入愛海;第二是尋找一個夥伴，使他們的身心需要得到滿足。歐洲和美國人一直專注於個人獨立的培養，所以歐洲和美國人具有強烈的自我中心和獨立感。
So we say that the marriage of Europeans and Americans is love; the Chinese marriage is family.
- Chinese spouse standard. From the traditional Chinese spouse standard parents for their son election daughter. Today's Chinese young men and women of the mate selection criteria, although not necessarily good background background, but still affected by this principle. Now the young men find girlfriends, most of the man will choice those pure and ture girl. Think as a woman, then more consideration of the man's economic conditions and family background, followed by education and knowledge level, again is the external body, looks and other factors.
中國配偶標準。從傳統的中國配偶標準的父母為他們的兒子選媳婦。今天中國年輕男女選偶標準雖然不一定好好背景，但仍受這個原則的影響。現在，年輕人找到女朋友，大多數男人都會選擇那些純潔的女孩。女人會考慮男人的經濟條件和家庭背景，其次是教育和知識水平，再次是外在身體，外貌等因素。
- Europeans and Americans of the spouse criteria and we really have a big difference. They are mainly fcompatibility, the rest of the conditions like family background, education and other factors can not be considered in the list.
歐美人配偶的標准我們確實有很大的區別。它們主要是默契，其餘條件如家庭背景，教育等因素在列表中不能被考慮。
