An unforgettable day 难忘的一天

[msy891002q]

如果一个不问，一个不说，
再熟悉的人，
也会渐渐没了共同语言，
再深的感情，
也会渐渐找不到支点。
连倾诉和倾听的欲望都没有了，
这段感情也就差不多走到了头。
两个人的沟通，
70%是情绪，30%是内容。
情绪不对，内容就会被扭曲。

没有良好的情绪，
心里话就说不出来，
真心话就听不进去。
说话阴阳怪气，
让人误以为是挑衅。
脾气一触即发，
把沟通变成了吵架。

要沟通，就诚心实意。
平和的情绪，诚恳的语气。
治得了你脾气的，是你爱的人；
受得了你脾气的，是爱你的人。
控制得了情绪，你就是主动的人；
被情绪所控制，你就注定是被动。
有时，生活就是一种妥协，
一种忍让，一种迁就。
并非所有的事情，
都适宜针锋相对，铿锵有力。

强硬有强硬的好处，
忍让有忍让的优势。
妥协不一定全是软弱，
忍让不一定就是无能。

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