Hi dear @rivalhw, First off - I'm sorry to hear about this sad incident. Good and bad things happen in families. We the humans are a mix of good and bad emotions so it's natural to get angry at bad things. Things get out of control when we take brave decision while we're angry. In my humble opinion, discussion is the best way to clear the air and sort out things. Listening to each other when you are not angry, in a normal environment can solve the issues like this one. I feel for your daughter.
Also, I want to say that things like this don't happen within a day. They show their symptoms before this event takes place multiple times. If not taken care of, it get worsen and worsen and the unexpected (negative) happens.
You have been a nice human being and lovable Steemian, so I got sympathies for you. Your words represent your heartfelt feelings . At least, you're not a liar.
I hope future holds the best time of you and each one of your family members.
Steem On!
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