This is a really interesting post of yours, often it is glossed over that women also abuse men, an a general attitude of 'lucky' - at least in some cultures - must make it hard to report it and have it taken seriously. It is such an awful thing to do to someone, regardless of genders.
I am not going to count this as your entry as if you do want to join in with this contest :)
So can i re apply or i have to wait for another contest of yours
Yes, if you want to reapply, you would be very welcome. This one didn't fit the rules so it didn't count :)