Hi,
I'm not cutting ties with them.
Everybody has experienced some form of trauma. And if not healed, you pass it on to the next generation. In my own process, I could heal those parts in me and for my ancestors.
They call it transgenerational trauma. For instance my great-great-great grandmother was sexually abused during an occupation. Therefore she passed on some hostility about men and sex. Certain believes and behaviour including the cultural heritage are passed on. Mostly it's fear, enjoyment and always be on the lookout.
My ancestors before me, weren't capable to heal this part. Because they needed to survive as well. WO I & II, fleeing, not feeling safe in a new country and so on. All this the trauma got build up, and never spoken about. It's passed on by DNA and behaviour.
The generation I'm living has the opportunity to heal this all. It's also the souls choice to experience all this, to grow and ascent.
Besides my family trauma. I'm also caring karmic bounds. From this life and past lives. The ones I can "fix" here, I wanted to undo. So I don't carry to much unnecessary bagage.
In my journey I'm taking my family with me. Well, the ones who do want to change as well. Some bonds are still very challenging and deep. Especially with the ones who don't want to change, from those I keep a distance. I can only do so much, I can't change the other. That's up to them.
For me it's important to share my story, with my closest family, like my brothers, sis, mother and stepdad.
I used to move without thinking, sharing with them makes me aware about my motives and my blindspots. And it's also healing for them, I show them a path which they can take for their own.
A bit long explanation. I'm working on to keep it simple :)
It's great that you are going to include them :) Long explanations are always a good thing on Hive :) In the tradition of this platform, longer is better!
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