RE: You are asked to do something you don't want to do by someone who you value their friendship...are you more likely to...

[lundgreenman]

I answered
respond direct and honestly that you don't want to do this, not worrying about being nice

Being nice (real or fake niceness) is VERY overrated. Honesty is the best policy and if a person doesn't believe that and act that way, then I wouldn't value their friendship in the first place.