'...but being overly nice gives me a little bit of cult vibe at points.' LOL
I get what you're saying, I have to admit, it occurred to me on some occasion to be overly nice on posts where the authors upvote is worth more then what I make in in writing 20 posts...
That being said, it is too bad that people rely on that sometimes (myself included) and that is why I always try to comment something constructive while doing that ... ;)
Exactly! That's why we call it constructive criticism, I can't deny that I have done that a couple times too. Usually when it's something like, "best comments I will 100% upvote." But at the same time I wanna hit myself for being such a dog. lol