I apologize if I have given you the impression that I control the game. I didn't realize I gave this impression, its the first time anyone has told me I act this way. I certainly don't feel that I control the game, so it must be in my communication skills.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts cyberblock and I will be more aware in the future to this perception.
OMG geezes dave! not you... you know who we're talking about