Rockstar vs. Accountant Bias: Why women like jerks

She want a thug but she know she need a stable man. I’m watching the state of the union address right now and Trump is about to take the stage.

She wants the cowboy but ends up with the farmer. She wants the lead singer but only to end up with the band manager. How many times have you ever brought a woman around your friends and you feel like she is more attracted to them than she is to you. It happened to me plenty of times. I’m playing it safe because i’m trying not to burn the chicken and they have nothing to lose so their carefree and abundant attitude wins over my scarcity mindset. Boom! Now she is with them and I look foolish lol.

Ever feel like when you had one girl it was way easier to get more women? But going from 0 women on your roster to 1 woman was the hardest thing on earth. It’s actually the same with money. Getting your first customer is the hardest, once you have a stomped out path to 1, rinse and repeat. But when you have one woman you are able to operate out of “abundance”. When you operate with the attitude that you will have your basic “needs” taken care of it allows you to go out and hunt more relentlessly. It allows you to play offense instead of defense.

Women like Trump because he is carefree and a total cowboy. Nobody can tell him anything, he does what he wants, he says what he feels, he is always the boss. Women love that on the low.

When 50 cent and Lloyd Banks had their “beef” 50 had said it was hard to be around eachother because they both had their own crews. When 50 would go around Lloyd Banks crew, the power dynamic would shift; Lloyds crew was used to Lloyd being the alpha male, but when 50 was around, it was hard to watch Lloyd be the beta and defer to 50 cent being the alpha male.

Dame Dash said no real man should have a boss. I’m totally with that statement. Even if someone writes a check to you, you should still be the boss of your own domain.

The women that you don’t like stick to you like glue but the women that you show affection to runs from you like the plague. Why is this? Because when you are wanting something, and you show it, it doesn’t scream “rockstar”, it screams needy. Have your own focus, have your own goals and targets. I’ve had the most success with women when I was on a warpath to find success through business. When I would tell women “no” or “no time for that” or “not going to go do this/that with you” it made them respect me more.

Beauty and the beast is a perfect example. She tries to tame a beast to make him her own. He was a rockstar and she wanted him to show up on time and be normal.

After years of getting done dirty by rockstars, she settles for the accountant that was there all along. The accountant will do because she knows what she needs to make a family and do normal “American Dreamy” stuff.

Be a rockstar.

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