Female power is discrete. Women learnt from an early age that their psychological strength is the tool to use if they want to get the most out of life. While men were given toys such as trucks and trains so that they could learn how to manipulate the world around them, women were given dolls so that they could learn how to manipulate people. Fast-forward a decade or two and you have women who are adept at pushing just the right buttons to get what they want. Women already know all tricks, so they can't use their powers on each other. Their tricks only work on men.
Men are simple creatures with simple needs. Present yourself as the person who solves his needs and you have a loyal puppy at your side for life. Thus, female power over men is based on controlling the thee male needs that only women can provide.
1. Power Over The Cradle
Man wants to procreate so that his genes are passed on to the next generation. He also wants someone to leave his wealth and knowledge to when he dies. He's too busy getting shit done to spend all day making sure that his progeny has eaten so he gets his woman, a natural caregiver, to take care of that for him.
Woman exerts control over man by demanding a price for this service. The socially acceptable forms of payment are a wedding, the occasional dowry, and the promise to do his level best to take care of her and the child. Sounds like a fair trade, but what if the man wants the opportunity to raise his child on his own without a woman's input? This is where you'll start to see how powerful female power over the cradle really is.
Think about how many single mothers there are and compare them to the number of single fathers. Single fatherhood only ever happens if the mother dies early or on the rare occasion when the mother checks out. If they are not married then the woman is given custody by default. The message is clear: if he wants to be directly involved in raising his child, he has to take care of the woman as well.
How does a man resist this form of manipulation? The simplest way would be to decide that he doesn't want kids. No desire for kids means that no woman will ever exert cradle power over him. Even if she 'accidentally' gets pregnant, getting him to contribute to her's and the child's existences is difficult without social and governmental pressure.
The other option is surrogacy. Find a woman who'll carry the child to term, get her to relinquish all rights, then pay her for the services rendered. He will then have full control over how the child is raised. He might even decide to raise with the child with the knowledge necessary to side-step gynocentricity.
The best option for a man who wants to propagate would be cloning. With cloning, he can get the child that he wants to have without involving a woman at all. This is why women will always be the biggest opposition to the cloning effort but they won't speak against it as women. They'll get their appointed simps, er, male figureheads in the church and government to do the lobbying for them.
2. Power Over The Kitchen
Man has to eat. If a woman can provide him with his favorite meal then he'll keep coming back for more. Just by making his favorite meals, she'll have him investing more time in her then he's investing in other women. After a while it will be logical to start chipping in for ingredients. Then he'll be buying all her groceries and staying over there so often so that moving in together seems like the next logical decision. You know how this ends.
Power over the kitchen has a dark side as well. If the man pisses her off then she'll stop making his favorite meals. You can always tell how happy a wife is by the quality of meals that she's cooking.
How does a man protect himself from Power Over the Kitchen? He learns how to cook his own damn meals.
3. Power Over The Womb
Man wants to get some! The need to procreate has him chasing tail just for the dopamine rush. Woman has a complete monopoly over whether he gets that fix or not and she charges accordingly. In some cases, the price is nothing less than half of all his future earnings and a lavish slave parade (read: wedding).
How does a man protect himself from Power Over the Womb? He could:
- Rent one out from a hooker,
- Restrict himself to the company of Ms. Rosey-Palm,
- Go into monk mode and divert his sexual energy towards creating worlds rather than people, ala MGTOW,
- Give her dick so good, she starts wondering if she should be paying him for it.
The choice is his.
Regaining Control
Female power is not to be feared. When used properly, it can propel a man to great heights. The issue is that female power is being misused.
Psychologically speaking, men are weak. The psychological damage that an unchecked woman can do to a man's ego is akin to the physical damage that his fists can do to her face. In most cases of man-on-woman domestic violence, you'll find that the man was constantly bullied , starved or cajoled and he couldn't quite place it, but he could tell that something was terribly wrong and he reacted defensively in the only way that he knew how. Fists go flying.
Man can protect himself from such situations be understanding woman's seemingly irrational behavior and ejecting himself from the situation. The greatest punishment that he can give her for being psychologically violent is not hitting back, but withdrawing his time. She'll get the message.
Women have forgiven me for doing all kinds of terrible things to them, yet none has ever forgiven me for using the silent treatment on her. This is the MOAB in relationships, so use it sparingly.
If you want to know more about female strength and the silent hand of the matriarchy, check out 'Anatomy of Female Power' by Chinweizu Ibekwe.
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