Aww, I didn't know you were such a romantic.
People want that. To be told what to do, who to date, and who to love, because it makes it safe. Its a good investment. The next generation is scarred by what we did to the divorce rate, they want better chances.
I wish however, that they gave themselves better chances, by being honest with themselves, and being outside in the community more. Oh well. It is what it is.