You learn a new of tricks and tips. You know DHV, You can do magic, You can play Cube.( I was guilty of this too on the side note) sounds funny but people are actually doing it. You always have to neg her so she comes to your value. This is all bullshit, This is a dark side of the game. Suppose you win over her and she likes this part of you. You are in a relationship with her. Now suddenly the mask is off, you show your real side. Obviously, she won't like the real you as she feels in love with the DHV you. So this thing won't last for long. As you tried to build something out of a lie. You have to show the real you.the imperfect you. Believe me, no matter how beautiful a girl looks, she has own insecurities. She has her own doubt. She won't open up until you do. The best strategy is present the best authentic version of you and there is no hiding no lying no pretending. Whoever interacts with you gets the best version of you.