So sorry about this @aggroed.
Trust me i know the feeling. I remember my dad. It clocked 3 years on Feb 14 that he died. It was tragic. Three days earlier i was with him and told him i was bringing my girlfriend home to see him as he has always asked of her.
Three days later, we were there beside him beside his sick bed. It was sudden and quick. He had no time to talk with me. He was frail. He breathe his last in my arms.