You're not a failure. The bar was set too high intentionally to make us all feel that way. And it works so well. This society's values are in the wrong place anyway, set on all the wrong things. Love is enough, because it has to be. It's all that's truly real, non-material. Even though it's not even really real unless we make it that. And it's in you. It is you. It's why you're here. You're not here for money or your use to some company. I know that's how it is, and how it feels with routine, but it's very much not all at the same time. You're more, worth more, and life is more. And fuck what people think. There's a divide where those who understand will, and those who don't, they won't. Just let it be. In a world full of billions, for every person who doesn't accept or understand, there's surely another who will. Wait for those, be thankful for them, hold onto them, and forget all the rest. It's easier said than done, I know.