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Is there anything beyond death? This question is very common. Everybody wants to know what happen after the death, a lot of people say that we see a light at the end of tunnel, others believe that we’ll see all of our dear relatives that already are dead and others declare that we’ll be in a place with a lot of wonderful things. On the other hand, there are a lot of people that believe in the reincarnation, or the next step is at the sky or at the purgatory, It’s possible that after this life there isn’t another opportunity, this theme is very controversial. At this moment doesn’t exist any person that has comeback from the death. But some people that have suffer an accident, dramatic moment s or faced the death very near, change their life because understand that in any moment the life can finish, for that reason they decide to live every single minute as if it was the last. With the before explanation, I have another question, Why must we live a dramatic or traumatic moment to change our lives? We are beings of routines, habits and the most of the people prefer to live in the comfort zone, with the same routine every day, because they feel fear about the new things, the news experiences, new knowledge, but if everybody will internalize and understand that It isn’t a day more It’s a day less that we have to live. So in this moment we realize that we lose more time in fights, lies, rancor, anger, don’t do many things because we feel embarrassed about these things but, What is the problem is my life, is my business, or maybe we don’t do the things that really want because we look excuses. Because yes, we sabotage ourselves with expressions such as: I can’t…, But I…, I do it late…, What will people think of me? And many things else…
It’s necessary that we understand that the unique requisit to die It’s to be alive. The life is a gift and you have to open it and enjoy it as you want. Unless you want to have the gift in its box as an ornament, so that you can only admire it from the outside, and it doesn’t have sense, because it’s truth that we don’t know what is there beyond death, but yes we know what there is in the life, and we have to enjoy all, the happiness, sadness, mistakes, smiles, tears, loneliness and the a lot of things that the life offers us. Why do we keep our best clothe to a special occasion? To live is a special occasion. Why do you wait that somebody ask you a hug or a kiss? If you want it do it. Why do you wait that someone gets sick or decides to go away? To tell she/he I love you, I miss you, you are important for me, because the most authentic thing is to express our feelings. Why be afraid of something? if you don’t know if you are going to have another moment to enjoy that which you so desire. The day is today, the moment is now. So laughs loudly, dance enjoying the music, forget the shame, Love with all your being, eat whatever you want, enjoy all and everything.
In conclusion, it’s important to accept and understand that the death is inevitable and it is a part of the process of the human beings. It is very sad to lose a dear person. In fact the death isn’t overcome, but we learn to live with the big pain. Nevertheless, when people lose a dear person has to continue living. We have to remember our dear dead beings with love, nostalgic and gratitude for all wonderful things we enjoyed with them. The main thing in the life it’s to understand that we aren’t irreplaceable, because in our jobs in a few days somebody will do our taks and in the house someone will have our responsibilities, but we can be unforgettable when we earn a great, honest and important place in the hearts of the people around us. The past is to learn, acknowledge. While the present is to enjoy and built the future because we don’t know what is there beyond death.