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The Steemit FAQ offers this Steemit Etiquette Guide which outlines why asking for follows is frowned upon. You can reach people and make genuine connections by writing unique comments specific to each post.

My comment is genuine, the think I mean with it is what I want for each other. Just my comment is not unique because it is not related to content. There is no chat in steemit for we have to do this throw comments.

Again, you'll understand much better if you read this Steemit Etiquette Guide. Continuing with your approach will not prove successful over the long term.

Also, we definitely do have steem.chat to reach out without using comments.