In life, I have come to realize that it is very unnecessary to allow other people determine who you truly are and how you should feel at every point in time undermining what they do to you or what happens around you. It could be difficult sometimes to maintain your composure and believe in yourself maybe because of who the offence is coming from, (someone you so trusted, believe in and held in high esteem) but not withstanding, you are what you say you are and not what any other person thinks you are, so always keep your head up high, straight and focused because you are headed somewhere and I guess you don't need any of those distractions.
Watch this video and tell me what you make of it.
My video is at DLive